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Finding
a Partner
Some people think they aren’t attractive or successful enough to
get partners. That’s just wrong. Looks really don’t matter
all that much in the relationship game. Sure, looks can come in handy,
they can be the honey that attracts the flies. But once the ball gets
rolling, it’s strategy that will get you what you want: a good
grasp of strategy, and the ability to keep your head.
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Step
One – The Setup
- Start by holding back.
This initial stage involves
one of the most crucial decisions you will have to make when starting
a new romance: when and how to get intimate.
It’s up to you to decide whether you want to get involved,
and when. Remember, sex is the key, it’s the magic bullet. Control
the sexual dance and you will have the power to control your partner.
In taking steps toward intimacy, you have to be the one to set the pace.
This section includes:
The Fifteen
Kinds of Lovers- How long should you wait before getting involved with each
type?
Handy Tips for keeping
your distance at the beginning.
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Step
Two – Stay
in Control.
- Show ‘em who’s
boss.
You’ve set your feet on the first steps of the long road to
happiness, but your course must be mapped out, and the itinerary established,
so that your way of life can eventually be understood and maintained
by both of you. You, the navigator, have to take the lead. You have
to set the tone. Think of Pavlov’s dogs. Those dogs of Pavlov’s
weren’t running all over the place eating what they wanted when
they wanted, were they? Of course not. They were sitting there politely,
waiting for the dinner bell so that they could start drooling. That’s
the kind of behavior you want to evoke in your partner.
This section includes:
Strategies for staying in charge, including real-life scenarios, things
to say and an analysis of the hidden messages you are sending your
partner.
Microgoals to help you implement your strategy step by step.
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Step
Three – Be the Judge.
- Love on your
terms.
You’ve taken charge of your relationship, and now you can have
love on your terms. Hats off to you! After all, it’s your ball game. But don’t forget that
the leadership role you’ve stepped into carries with it a lot of
responsibility.
This section includes:
Discipline tips
and tricks.
Tense situations -
dealing with talkback.
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Step
Four – Starve the Prisoner Into Submission
- Be cruel to be kind.
If you want your romance to survive and to blossom into lasting love,
you are going to have to fight for it. You have to be cruel to be kind
now. As soon as your partner starts to rebel
you must take action.
This section includes:
Strategies for dealing with demanding partners
How to tell if your partner has hit bottom
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Step
Five – Turn Around the Backlash
- For
a lifetime of happiness.
This is the final
test of the relationship.You’ve succeeded
in accelerating the relationship’s natural stages, so that events
that usually occur over the course of five years have been gotten out
of the way in the first five months. Meanwhile you’ve been controlling
the outcome at each stage. If you've followed the Five Steps, chances
are you will now have a relationship on the most favorable terms. You're
an expert in this invaluable five step lover training technique, and
so can have your relationship on your terms.
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